Keeping sexual desires alive and burning forever is something that every couple wants. Sex is not something that is meant for the purpose of reproduction only, but it is an expression of love in itself. Words may not be enough for some people to describe how they feel for their partners; but a single act of love making takes their relationship to a whole new level of intimacy. This sweetest fruit of love is something that every couple wants to cherish forever.
The only problem here is that the intimacy level that you share with your partner keeps on decreasing with time. The passion that you once had for your partner fades away; as both of you become busy in your daily routines. After marriage your kids become your only priority and life becomes boring. And there comes a time when both of you think about what happened to your passion, intimacy and sex life. Do not worry this happens with most of the couples. At that point of time there is an urgent need to get that fire back in to your relationship.
You will have to spice up your life by bringing some changes into your emotional as well as physical desires. The quickest possible way is to have sex more often and try using different kinds of sex toys, like vibrators, butt plugs, handcuffs etc., in different positions and at different places.
The more sex you have, the better it will be for you to take things forward in a playful way. Usually men do not agree to involve sex toys, like butt plugs in Australia, vibrators etc., so, it is the responsibility of the female partner to make them comfortable with it. You can also try role play; where you act as strangers trying to have one night stand together. Do not have sex just for the sake of having sex, but try to get more involved in it with your partner and prioritise him or her all the times.
Apart from having sex you can try doing other things together like cooking together, watching your favorite movies together, go out on a romantic date, etc. Surprise your partner and try to excite them in every possible way you can. Go on a second honeymoon together; the same place where you went for your first honeymoon to bring out all those funny, naughty and exciting memories that the two of made together.
The most important thing of all is that you should make him or her feel loved all the time. Even if it is difficult in your busy schedule; you must take out some time and express your love for your partner.